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Regions shaken by domestic violence to join national anti-violence rallies

Emily Anderson
April 25 2024 - 5:25pm

Regional volunteers have sprung into action to add three new locations to a national anti-violence rally expecting to draw thousands over the weekend.

Cobram, Wagga and Orange locals reached out to national rally organisers What Were You Wearing? (WWYW) to rapidly plan anti-gendered-violence demonstrations in their towns.

Jodie Ogilvie and Marea Ruddy put their hands up to organise a No More: National Rally Against Violence event in Orange. Picture by Carla Freedman
Jodie Ogilvie and Marea Ruddy put their hands up to organise a No More: National Rally Against Violence event in Orange. Picture by Carla Freedman

Their responses followed the deaths of Cobram woman Emma Bates and Forbes woman Molly Ticehurst.

The deaths of the two regional women marked 31 women killed in Australia in 2024, according to the Red Heart Campaign.

Their deaths have impacted their local communities, and those beyond sparking renewed calls for government action into gendered violence.

  • Cobram, Vic: 11.00am Sunday, April 28 at Federation Park
  • Wagga, NSW: 11.00am Sunday, April 28 at Victory Memorial Gardens
  • Orange, NSW: 2.30pm Sunday, April 28 at Robertson Park
In a Melbourne family violence symposium, Attorney-General Mark Dreyfus says men need to “step up” to stop the “crisis of male violence”.

'We needed to do something'

Wagga local Emily Hale reached out to the national rally organisers to find out how regional Australians could support the cause.

In 48 hours, she and other Wagga locals had planned and received council approval for their event.

"I just felt so upset but also really angry, and I just felt like we needed to do something," she said.

"I wasn't happy not doing anything."

I wasn't happy not doing anything.

- Emily Hale

All members of the public are invited to attend the stand-still event on April 28.

"I think gender-based violence and family violence impacts women everywhere."

"It's going to take the whole nation's effort to eradicate it and that includes men, it'd be really great to see as many men as possible come and support it."

Orange locals step up

Orange local Marea Ruddy also reached out to WWYW organisers after the death of 28-year-old Ms Ticehurst on April 22.

Jodie Ogilvie, Arlo Ruddy and Marea Ruddy at Robertson Park ahead of this weekend's event. Picture by Carla Freedman
Jodie Ogilvie, Arlo Ruddy and Marea Ruddy at Robertson Park ahead of this weekend's event. Picture by Carla Freedman

"I'm sad and angry, I'm frustrated and I'm scared that all this craziness is happening," Ms Ruddy said.

"The goal of this rally is, it's a call to action, it's to get the government to recognise that this is a national emergency."

"I think that Orange is big enough that we can start being involved in national events."

I think that Orange is big enough that we can start being involved in national events.

- Marea Ruddy

Orange has a population of more than 61,000 and is two hours from Forbes.

Jess, who wishes to keep her last name private, will drive to Orange on April 28 for the 'No More' rally.

She lives in Parkes, which neighbours Forbes, and has shared the rally with her community, many of whom knew Ms Ticehurst.

"When it happens in your small country towns, like out here, it's really close to home," Jess said.

"We are allowed to have a voice, we shouldn't be silent, we have a right to stand up for ourselves," Jess said.

The Orange rally is at 2:00 pm at Robertson Park on Sunday, April 28.

Cobram races to rally

Locals from Northern Victoria town of 6,000 people Cobram have also volunteered to host a rally.

Their rapid response followed the murder of 59-year-old Ms Bates who was found dead in her home on April 23.

WWYW founder and national rally organiser Sarah Williams hopes the national rally will prompt action from the government and change community attitudes towards domestic, family and sexual violence.

What Were You Wearing founder Sarah Williams is organising the No More: National Rally Against Cender Based Violence. Picture by Madeline Link
What Were You Wearing founder Sarah Williams is organising the No More: National Rally Against Cender Based Violence. Picture by Madeline Link

"Definitely hoping to be able to really make sure that people actually start to realise ... that we are in a national emergency with violence against women, and so much more needs to be done," Ms Williams said.

The No More: National Rally Against Violence events are being held across Australia from April 26 - 28.

Locations include Ballarat, Bendigo, Geelong, Melbourne, Newcastle, Sydney, Coffs Harbour, Canberra, Adelaide, Hobart and Perth.

Details can be found on the WWYW website and Instagram.

  • Support is available for those who may be distressed. Phone Lifeline 13 11 14; 1800-RESPECT 1800 737 732; Men's Referral Service 1300 776 491; Kids Helpline 1800 551 800; beyondblue 1300 224 636; National Elder Abuse 1800 ELDERHelp (1800 353 374)
Emily Anderson

Emily is a reporter for The Daily Advertiser in the Riverina, NSW. Originally from Sydney, Emily has previously worked across Western Sydney and Regional NSW. Making the move to Wagga in February 2024, she is excited to learn the ins and outs of the Riverina. Got a story? Flick an email to emily.anderson@austcommunitymedia.com.au Follow on insta @emilywyanderson